You may never know how hard it is to forgive, until you have been wronged so deeply by someone and then you decide never to forgive that person again. You may even find it really hard to comprehend what that person has done. Because there you are, broken and hurt. To be honest, it's a really hard situation. I have also been wronged by someone and I thought that forgiving that person wasn't a fair thing to do. I thought forgiving was unjust and biased. 

“Forgiveness is the only route to freedom from anger and bitterness. It is the only path to healing from our hurts."

Have you ever be wronged? Do you feel so bad and you have decided to hold on to those grudges? I have been in a situation where I was also wronged deeply. It even ached more, when I could see that the very person I couldn't forgive, was living like nothing happened. The fact is, it's on you to let go of those grudges! You can't move on if you're still holding on to past wrongs. You're mistaken if you think forgiving someone is for their own good. Because it isn't, you deserve to live in peace. Nobody feels like forgiving..but we do it because it's the right thing to do.

“True forgiveness is the medicine that heals the deepest emotional wounds. It closes the door on the past, and gives you grace and motivation to move forward and enjoy the life God wants you to live."


You might say oh nickki! It hurts, you can't understand how deeply I was wrong. Yes! I can never understand and I'm so sorry for all the pains you've gone through. But I do know this: You’re never going to move on with your life until you forgive and let it go. That doesn’t mean you have to forget. It means you relinquish your right to get even and respond to evil with good.



“Many people spend most of their emotional energies being upset and angry about events that occurred in the past. Unfortunately, this energy is completely wasted. Nothing good can come of constantly complaining about the past. Even worse, the negative emotions kept alive by reliving past events rob you of the joy and excitement that you could experience by thinking about future possibilities."

 
The fact is forgiving and letting go does more good for you. Forgiveness simply means we choose not to hold an offense against someone, not that we actually forget it happened. You can't exactly forget those memories, but you can let go of those pains. You will know that you've truly forgiven someone when you think of those moments without having to relive those pains and hurts. 

Dear readers, concern yourself with forgiving so there can be peace in your heart and you can also get on with your life.