When it comes to contents like this, I have to be honestly truthful with the fact that I do not know it all, and I am still learning as well. Well, if you have other opinions on this topic, the comment section is wide open.
I was just wondering how being a woman is quite a lot to handle for virtually 8 out of 10 women in the society. We are constantly bothered with questions like if our skin color is perfect, or if our stretch marks are not too obvious, or if our hairdo is right, or if our walking posture is perfect. There are just so many rules and etiquettes. But here are few facts you need to fully understand as a woman, and trust me, we need to know them.
“The strongest actions for a woman is to love herself, be herself and shine amongst those who never believed she could.”
1. YOU ARE PRIORITY
I hate sounding this way but trust me, you are the only one that matters. You should always put yourself first, no one else will. It is not a crime to stand up for yourself at every damn time. It is quite sad to see women criticizing themselves every single time(like hey sis, can't you see you are so awesome!!! You definitely do not need a man to validate that). Ewwww, I am getting quite worked up now. Lol. You better start giving yourself the accolades you deserve sis.
“The only real elegance is in the mind; If you've got that, the rest really comes from it.”
2. THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS HIGH CLASS OR LOW CLASS!
Say after me: You have no damn right to classify me into a class! ( way to go, sis, I can definitely feel that excitement in you exploding, pow!pow!pow!). Do not let any guy from no damn place put you in a class. You are your own class, the world should deal with that baby.
3. EVERY PART OF YOUR BODY IS AWESOME!
Damn! I hate it when I hear girls say, oh your bum is so flat or oh, why are your boobs falling( like sister, I know it is flat, mind your business!). Some friends hide under the “ I was just joking" excuse, definitely not fair. Please if you are a guy and at this present age, you still body shame ladies, then I literally have to advise you to stop. It is actually vice versa tho. Body shaming any gender at all is so wrong and unnecessary.
"The best protection any woman can have is courage".
4. NO ONE HAS IT ALL TOGETHER
Heyyyyyyyyyyyy, I am definitely still guilty of this fact. It is totally wrong to compare myself with others, but I guess it is an automatic button that turns on every time😂. I personally feel that social media contributes to this fact, literally, everyone posts all the glamour that happens in their lives, and all of a sudden, it feels like a competition. Honestly, there are lonely nights, awkward moments with boyfriend, silly fights with friends, and so on. But I do not see any of that anywhere online(someone, please explain what exactly is going on😂). The truth still remains that no one has it all figured out, and the earlier you realize that, better your sanity sis. Be courageous!
“There is nothing more rare, nor more beautiful, than a woman being unapologetically herself; comfortable in her perfect imperfection. To me, that is the true essence of beauty.”
5. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL
Nini is so prettyyyy. Damn a total spec( I know you can also agree with that, I still think I was created with so much patience tho😂). The majority of us do not even believe people when they comment on our beauty like we feel it is just mere flattering words, that's totally wrong. You are beautiful, everyone is. It is only up to you to see yourself that way as well. Get that self-esteem up baby!
At this stage, you have to figure out the remaining two😂. Don't forget to add them in the comment section. Nini loves you, always.❤
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