It's your favorite girllll nini! And I'm so happy with today's content because I think it's time to trash out some stuff that's becoming rampant or do I say irritating? Well, I think an abusive relationship is becoming rampant and it is really annoying. It's so painful to know that some people go through abusive relationships and they have decided to adapt to such a relationship because of love or for whatever reasons. TO BE VERY CLEAR, YOUR ABUSIVE PARTNER DOESN'T HAVE A PROBLEM WITH HIS ANGER, INSTEAD, YOUR PARTNER HAS A PROBLEM WITH YOUR ANGER. Your right to be angry has been taken away from you, instead, you're expected to remain silent and adapt to every of your partner's negative behaviors. No matter how badly your partner treats you, you are expected to remain calm and your partner expects your blood not to boil. Arrant nonsense! If you know nini well, you will know she always has a story behind every post. Here's a story!

“The scars you can’t see are the hardest to heal."
– Astrid Alauda

I visited a friend recently and during my visit to my baby girl, I experienced something really out of place! Apparently, I noticed a girl having a conversation with her boyfriend, and at a point, he screamed at her to shut up and that drew my attention. I was forced to pay more attention to their conversation and it seemed like she was used to being screamed at that she stood there quiet and voiceless. She remained silent and I watched her stand there totally embarrassed. I wondered what she must have done to have deserved such treatment from a guy she clearly loved.

“Being single is better than being lied to, cheated on and disrespected."

I think we need to remind these guys that we are not doing them a favor. We are in a relationship for God's sake not some random centers with numerous rules and regulations. Please this can never be the new normal, I totally disagree! This isn't even about being a feminist or whatsoever, what's wrong is wrong. That you want to command respect doesn't mean you should alter abusive words on a lady, it's wrong! And I must say this isn't about the ladies only! Respecting your partner should be of utmost importance. No human deserves to be treated with violence. I understand that most people involved in such acts are emotionally abused but hey! That's not on us. It's on you to fix yourself! 

“When someone isn’t treating you right, no matter how much you love them, you’ve got to love yourself more and walk away."

If you're a guy reading this, learn to keep your temper and emotions in check. Love a woman like she is a woman and not some random object. Violence can never be the new normal, be very clear on that. If you're a lady reading this, learn to keep your temper and emotions in check, and please walk out when necessary. You deserve the world no pressure!

If you walked away from a toxic, negative, abusive,one-sided, dead-end low vibrational relationship or friendship— you won.