Oh yes! It's time for something spicy guys. Do you guys know that feeling you get, when you really like someone but then, you decide to be true to yourself about the whole situation?


Oh well! Here are 3 reasons why I can't date that guy that I like so much😥:

A Friend To My Ex
Oops! I know that's really complicated but it's for a fact that he is a really close friend to my Ex. Chaii so sad! Some people might say that doesn't count or whatsoever. But let's be honest guys, we wouldn't be happy either if it was the other way round. I can't do that to anyone. Honestly!

“It may hurt to let go but sometimes it hurts more to hold on."

No Attention
Ummmm... Unfortunately, this guy seems to have little or no time for me. If there is anything I love in a relationship, it's attention! And he doesn't have that to offer! Yes you might think it's something we can sort out. But I personally believe a guy who likes me, should be able to offer his full attention with no questions. Oh yea! It's possible he doesn't feel the same way with me and it's fine. Yes! It's fine for real. I said it's fine!😂

“Sometimes the hardest thing and the right thing are the same thing."

Long Distance!
Parapam Pam Pam Pam Pam .. Oh yea I had to loud this one guys! If there is anyone who can't cope with long distance especially at the beginning of a relationship it's me! Yes Me! I'm terrible at it and I know that. He is quite far away and I don't to compromise guys. 

Oh wait! Do you think I'm pulling out because I don't have feelings for him? Or that I'm not ready to fight for a relationship that has a chance? Oh no! I do like him but I know what I want and I'm clear about it. I don't want to compromise in any situation. I have been heartbroken a lot of times and I don't want to ever feel those pains that comes with heartbreak ever again. Hey gee! You need to know what you want. I'm not saying that would make your relationship last longer tho, but you have to be aware that love isn't all that keeps a relationship.

Don't be in a haste! I know, no guy is perfect but who said you can't design your own perfect qualities? He doesn't have to acquire all physique, and all that you admire but the most important aspects are his qualities. Because when all the beauty fades! A man's qualities are all that's left. Choose Wisely and stick to it!

Here is a little assignment guys
List out all qualities you would love to see in your partner and stick to it! I love you as always.