Dear Adenike,



I understand that times are crazy tough now, and it seems like there is no light at the end of the tunnel. I understand that you have a lot of unanswered questions about the future, and you fear that you might have missed it somewhere. I know how messed up your feelings are now because it seems like you always make wrong choices. I totally get you, and I wish I could do more than encouraging you, but the truth is things are definitely working out together for your good. How about you hang in there and take things slowly?


“Sometimes you will think you can't take it another day. But if you hang in there, one step at a time, you will be able to accomplish more than you ever imagine". - Taya Kyle 



Oh yes! The pressure seems endless, and the road seems blocked too but trust me, it is all going to fade like they never existed. I understand how much you want to be financially free, and it all just seems like your plans are falling apart. I have known you all your life, and you are not someone who gives up easily. You have been through worse challenges, and you have been out fine. You got this girl. It is all coming to an end as they always have. So how about you hang in there and breathe as much as you can now?


“You're going to go through tough times - that's life. But I say, 'Nothing happens to you, it happens for you.' See the positive in negative events". - Joel Osteen



Adenike, you are brighter than you think, and it is fine if you doubt that sometimes. But it is not if you do not believe that at all. You probably think you are worse at keeping good relationships, but how about you ponder on healthy ones you have for a change? You are loved by me always and forever. Yes! You are sometimes confused about what to believe and even confused about what plans to make, but you have to remember what someone once said to you; "You do not plan life; you work towards life’s plan". You have to remember that you would always be fine even in overbearing situations. So how about you hang in there and hope that life works out better than you have ever imagined?


“Hang in there! We can do this. And we will.”   


These past few weeks have been so stressful, and sometimes I just want to be alone in my thoughts. Hoping that all these noises life offers, just stop. But I guess you can only find such peace in God alone. Situations around you might not be good right now, but you have to believe that opportunities are coming. All of these noises are going to end, and as always you are going to be fine.  Take a break from heartbreaking thoughts and just breathe... As always, I will forever love you and Adenike.

                                             


                                                            Your friend,

                                                            Lifeofnickki.