I have been watching a lot of YouTube videos lately and right now the only thing in my head is how those YouTubers say "let's get right into the viiiii deeee oooo”😂😂. Hey guys, it’s yet another day with a different inspiration. If you all noticed at the first few months of my blogging, I was immersed with topics about love but these days it seems like I don’t get inspiration from that niche but I promise to get a boyfriend for you guys soon😂.  Before I begin to drag my intro for too long, let’s get right into the bloggggggg post gees😂😂😂( damn I have waited for so long to use that sentence in the way I just did 💃🏻)


“Just because something isn’t happening for you right now, it doesn’t mean it never will.” – Unknown



Recently, I was watching a kdrama(totally love them by the way!) and I was at a scene where someone was about committing suicide and the lead actress was talking her out of that act and then she made a statement saying: it will all pass by if you can bear a little longer and then I flashed back to a time in my life where I felt alone too, although I love myself too much to even consider suicide, it was a terrible time in my life. I had people around me trying to show that they cared but I still felt alone amid those people. Apparently, I stayed close to 3 years at home before getting an admission into the university. Oh! It was a tough time. Every night was a tough night, especially at those moments where you are waiting for a result of an admission list. There was a night I asked myself if I would ever be able to sleep well at night, in fact, I wondered how a peaceful sleep could feel and I’m glad to say that’s the life I enjoy now. Just like in the movie, I want to remind you guys that pain only takes time but it always heals. I dreaded moments where I had to cry myself to sleep, moments where I watched my friends move on with their lives, I felt stuck and alone but there was really nothing I could do. I hung in there. I thought of moments where it would all be a story and waited a little longer. Even when circumstances around tried to convince me that I needed to give up, I hung in there.


“Although the world is full of suffering, it is full also of the overcoming of it."Helen Keller



Hey there! I know it’s hard, I understand that you’re going through a lot of pain right now, I totally understand that you’re tired of your situation and you probably think it’s all over for you. I have been there before but it’s all past now. I don’t feel those pains anymore, it doesn’t hurt anymore, they are all memories now. Whatever you’re going through right now will soon turn into a memory. Please hang in there, you will be fine. I might not totally understand how deeply you are hurt but one thing I’m sure of is that it all passes by so quickly that you wouldn’t even realize the pain is all gone. Hang in there my friend. All the strength you need to hold on to is within you, please hang in there.


“You must make a decision that you are going to move on. It won’t happen automatically. You will have to rise up and say, ‘I don’t care how hard this is, I don’t care how disappointed I am, I’m not going to let this get the best of me. I’m moving on with my life.” – Joel Osteen


I know saying: “it only takes time" and “you will be fine" sounds cliche but fam those words are true. Please hang in there.


“Time heals all wounds.” – Common Saying


I can only hope and pray that you find what gives you hope and beliefs that you would be fine and hang in there. I love you 💕