Hey guys,

How are we doing? I hope the week has been great too.

It’s 2:48am right now and for some reason, I’m awake this very moment. It’s been a really tough week for me and I’m most especially awake because I’m nervous about my upcoming exams( online learning seems to be really scary for some reasons). I really just hope things go well because na my GP go suffer o😭. 

Before I allow my school energy to put me in a very bad mood, I must tell you this week was packed with drips! I mean my cousin happens to be celebrating her convocation. I had to go spend 3 days at her lodge and fam it was so much fun! Opor opor opor! Omo who Dey breeet(orishirishi😂).  This trip has made me miss my school so much, to be honest.  There was so much fun and of course, I danced a lot in my head when it was time to dance 😂😂.

If you’re still wondering what today’s article is really all about, then you might want to read a little longer because baby girl is still dancing 💃🏻. 

Well guys,  while all the fun and groove was going on, I had two experiences that really stood out for me, and yes! I would be sharing them with you guys. Yayyyyy!

Firstly, I got to understand that everyone has their own definition of good and bad and it solely depends on the quality of people you have around you. While the party was going on, everyone seemed to be comfortable rocking their partners and getting high. Though on a normal day, I’m one of the least guys you will see doing such, I was comfortable doing it and it didn’t feel like I was doing anything bad. But just while I seemed to be comfortable indulging myself in those acts, I realized there were times where things like this were against my moral beliefs and I wondered within myself the reason why I was so comfortable. I pondered on what the difference between those moments was and I guess the only answer I have now is that I was surrounded by a different set of people. When I’m around people who stand for the same beliefs I have, I tend to be aware of my beliefs and act strictly based on my moral beliefs. But when I’m around those who care less about morals, I tend to care less either. Truly, evil communication corrupts good manners! To my fellow friends out there who want to live strictly on their moral beliefs, you must first surround yourself with people who share the same beliefs with you. My advice to you is to first discover what beliefs you’re totally cool with ( not beliefs imposed by parents by the way) and get people who share the same beliefs with you. It is only then you can truly be strict about your lifestyle and beliefs (me thinking about what other words to use other than beliefs).

What’s your definition of good and bad? What gives you the conviction that what you term bad is actually bad, or rather what you term good is actually good? Your answer will only depend on the beliefs of the set of people you have spent most of your life with and also the kind of beliefs they have imposed on you. Therefore, before you judge someone today, remember they are solely acting on their own beliefs imposed by the people and society they live by.



What one thinks is right is not always the same as what others think is right; no one can be always right.



Secondly, I think my heart is in perfect condition. After ending my last relationship about some months( over a year) back, I haven’t been able to love again.  These few months have been worrisome to an extent especially with how much I get teased over it. At some point I wondered if I had truly gotten over my last breakup, even though I give the excuse of taking my time, I have considered giving some persons a chance and it has been hardddd. However, I met someone this week even though we didn’t exchange contact ( plainly saying we might never meet again💔), I felt different. I have not felt that way in a long time . It felt good.  The few hours spent with him were surreal! Well, the good news is my heart is in perfect condition, and just like everyone else and you, I will be able to love someone again! My best advice to you is to block all sort of energy that might pressure you, forgive the past, forgive yourself, allow yourself to heal from every hurt, and just live!


Love yourself, again and again and again!


It’s 3:41am already and I better go back to bed!

Nini loves you so very much! Don’t forget to drop a comment, it keeps me going!