[caption width="593"]Break up is a kind of dying.. It hurts[/caption]Love is a really nice feeling when you are with the right person. But still when love turns to heart break it becomes a very terrible feeling. I want to take you on the ride of how I managed my last break up and I feel so glad to be able to share it because it has become a wound that is finally healing up.

When it happened I was angry, disappointed and depressed. I couldn't even fight back my tears. I felt so much pain but still life goes on, i had to get back on my feet. One thing I want you to know here is that you must always get back on your feet, no matter the situation, no matter how hard you were beaten to the ground you have to get back on your feet. Although it took me a lot of time to get back up, i still did. At that time I did it because I felt i had to move on, but actually we all need to get back on our feet because life is quite too short to remain on the ground.

At first, i was desperate for answers, i wanted to know what I did wrong exactly,h I wanted to know if I was the the one who failed the relationship, I was in pain through out that stage because I was totally clueless. Gradually I stopped looking for answers and started denying the situation. I began to tell myself that it wasn't real. I didn't want to believe it was all over, this kept on for weeks. Gradually, anger crept in and I started feeling cursed.. I kept asking my self why things weren't working out for me. I kept on wondering why he would do that to me. And this led to depression. I think it was this moment that made sleep a special part of me. Up till now I see the act of sleeping as a place where I don't have to worry about anything.. Till today whenever am upset, bored, or worried I sleep. "Best place to be is in your sleep".

Finally I started accepting things the way they were and told myself that everything happened for a reason. Although I still felt a little sad, i was able to find peace.

Grieving is like digestion

Break up takes time to heal. Its not a process that we go through quickly. But we all actually need to grieve before moving forward.. It helps us in accepting the loss with peace and moving forward in our lives. So if you are facing a break up right now, try to let go of that relationship and move forward in your daily life.. Its quite hard and no one is pushing you to move on, take your time, but remember WE ALL HAVE TO GET BACK ON OUR FEET!!

  • It does not matter how slowly you go as long as you do not stop.
Hit the comment box if you want to share your experience with us or if you are going through a break up right now and you want to talk about it.