I didn't realize that going into the adulthood would take a whole lot from me. And what I mean is Adulthood has taken a lot from me, mentally, emotionally, financially and so much more.. Sometimes I wish, I was tutored or well informed about this whole change!! Or at least given a guide or something on how to live pass each day.. It even hurts more to realize that this change is constant,and nothing, absolutely nothing! can be done about it.

One of those fears I have piled up about growing up and adulthood are the what ifs. What if I don't get to be where I want to be at a specific age or time, what if I don't get the accolades I want for myself, what if I let those who have tried to impact one way or the other in my life, what if I get rejected or criticized about some of my decision makings or even so what if I fail because of some of my mistakes or wrong decision makings.

For most people,their fears govern their lives. Everything they do is organised around avoiding failure or criticism. They think continually about playing it safe, rather than striving for their goals. They seek security rather than opportunity.

But then, we have to learn to let it all go. Live in the moment. To be honest I do not get this whole adulthood thing figured out, but I'm not scared because I shouldn't be! We have to learn to stand up for ourselves no matter the situation and believe that we have it all under control. The fact that we can hope and believe in the future is a total relieve!.. Believe in those failures and critics, we can only hope for better days ahead.

A writer. Thomas .J. Watson, one of the giants of America business,replied with these profound words: “if you want to be successful faster, you must double your rate of failure. Success lies on the far side of failure ".

Well, most importantly, the Good news is that we are growing up!.. We might not have this whole thing figured out,but at least we are trying our best daily and living the best out of each day!!.

REMEMBER: Whenever life knocks you down, you fall forward!

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